Thomas Barnett

Tom Barnett of Oshkosh, WI passed away peacefully in his sleep on Sunday, December 8th, 2024, after a fierce two-year battle with pancreatic cancer. He was born June 14, 1957 in Steubenville, Ohio to Hugh "Barney" and Clarice Barnett. He was a devoted husband, loving father and known for his tireless work ethic and unwavering love for his family. Tom leaves behind a legacy of devotion, resilience, and cherished memories.

Tom met the love of his life, Brenda, on a blind date in Peoria, IL. The two were married on June 11, 1983 and together built a beautiful life, raising three sons: Jon, Chris, and Josh. Tom moved his family to Oshkosh in 1998, where he had a successful career at Sadoff Iron and Metal Company of 26 years.

Tom was a proud and loving father who loved watching his sons play sports as they grew up. He was not just a spectator, but their biggest fan. He was always there to cheer them on with an encouraging smile. It brought him endless joy and he cherished every moment they shared.

Traveling was one of Tom's greatest passions, especially with his beloved wife at his side. Together, they explored new places and created countless memories, with Mexico holding a special place in their hearts. Tom dreamed of retiring on a sandy beach, where the rhythm of the waves would match the serenity he deserved.

Tom was a man of extraordinary strength even as he battled cancer, his determination and selflessness shone brightly. He continued working and putting the needs of his family above his own. Though his retirement and beachside dreams were tragically cut short, Tom's memory will live on in the hearts of his loved ones. His strength, love, and perseverance will forever serve as a guiding light.

Tom is survived by his wife of 41 years Brenda Barnett, his three children Jon (Cassie) Barnett, Chris (Holly) Barnett, and Josh (Sammy) Barnett: five Grandchildren Kaiden, Ryker, Payton, Hudson, and Emmylou: two Sisters Karen Barnett and Linda (Greg) Davis. He is preceded in death by his Parents Hugh and Clarice Barnett.

A Celebration of Tom's life will be held at Konrad-Behlman Funeral Home-Westside, 100 Lake Point Drive, Oshkosh on Saturday December 21st, with visitation from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. and service to follow.

A heartfelt "thank you" is extended by Tom's family to the medical teams, and staff at the Cancer Treatment Center at Froedtert Hospital & Medical College of Wisconsin, for their exceptional care and treatments.

Rest peacefully, Tom. Though your journey here has ended, your love, strength and legacy will endure forever in the hearts of those who knew you.